(this is going to be a short post: I want to catch up before the end of the day)
Power. It's a jumble in EDs.
The anorexia has unspeakable power over you when it's at its strongest. And even when someone is fighting hard for recovery because those powerful anorexic thoughts don't want to let go.
Whether or not we want it, when we are in anorexic crisis periods, we have awful power over our families. Their lives are turned upside down and I can't even imagine the emotional impact on parents.
Paradoxically, when in treatment, the power that the anorexia holds over of us is replaced by the power of the nurses and doctors. That shift in the power balance is often the only way of forcing the anorexia to loosen its grip. But it can lead us to resent the very people who are trying to help us and to question the rules, sometimes even rebelling against them.
What we need, of course, is to find a way of reclaiming power for ourselves. In recovery, we won't need to be subjected to the power of the illness or the power of the nurses and our illnesses won't disempower our families and friends.
I want to be able to say "I take responsibility for my choices and for my life". When that happens, the power to live my own life will be mine.
1 comment:
it's funny how power shifts the way it does throughout illness and recovery - but the wonderful thing is that at the end the power is in the RIGHT place. In our hands and it's a healthy power instead of a hurtful one.
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